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A Friend Like You?

And the Lord said, Simon, Simon, behold, Satan hath desired to have you, that he may sift you as wheat: But I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren. (Luke 22:31-32 AV)

I don’t know that we can really imagine what it was like for Peter to stare directly into the eyes of Jesus as Jesus said, "I have prayed for you." Yet, for a moment let us try and stand in Peter’s shoes so to speak. Christ who knew all about Peter and his weaknesses was speaking to him personally. A friend who in this case knew that before dawn Peter would deny he even knew Him, yet here He stood saying, "I have prayed for you." Bring this scene home with you. What value would you place on such words of confidence and support by a friend who was not judging you by past experience, nor future expectations, but is standing with you because you are his friend?

Peter was moved deeply, for he immediately made a promise he would not keep, and for a short time appear to forget altogether, until he heard the cock crow. I think most of us would be so moved and vow undying loyalty to such a friend who stood with us no matter how wrong we were, who cared enough to be there when it counted without regard of circumstance. I think we too have made such vows, at least within our own hearts, where perhaps we are the only one who knows of it, or its later trampled condition when for some obscure reason we fail to be there for the same friend who has always been there for us.

In the same passage this moving scene is brought to us, however, we see the purpose of such friendship, that we will be a friend to those who come after us. This may not be the motivation nor intent of our friend’s undying loyalty to us, but it is a biblical truth, we are blessed that we might be a blessing.

Don’t grieve the heart of Christ who died for us, that we might have life and that eternal. I believe God sends a limited number of such friends into each life. Perhaps only one such friend in a lifetime. As surely as our sovereign God arranges such soul mates, the blessing is intended for us to pass to others. When will we realize that when we practice biblical principles, the blessings are multiplied. You cannot have a friend unless you are a friend. Can we not see that in passing along our friendship to another, we now have two friends, and these two four. This puts practical application to the command of Christ that we are to love our neighbor as ourselves (Mt. 19:19).

Do a little math and see how long such reproducing friendships would take to reach a population the size of your home town. I think the answer will surprise you, no matter how large that city. Unconditional love should get love in return. Nonetheless, often in human experience this will not be the case. Be not dishearted, for there is another only a smile away to whom God would have you share His love for you with. Or you can choose to hoard the blessing, and never know the joy of giving of yourself for another, and watch what was intended by God for a blessing, a true friend, turn to shame and bitterness. Or like Peter, because we have such a friend, we can overcome our failures and change the world we live in, one person at a time.

By: Dr. Chuck Baynard

 

 
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