How often we all smile at the efforts of a
small child to do something, refusing all help. "I can do it" is
the answer shouted in defiance to all who attempt to help. Unfortunately
most forget to grow up as the years pass. We think we are smart enough to
know what is good and can "take care" of ourselves. We have
swallowed a great lie from Satan! There are two forces in existence
darkness (evil) and light (good). One of these forces is going to control
your life! There is no neutral ground in this world.
Have you ever been brainwashed? No?
Wake up and smell the coffee! The forces of darkness are playing their
mind games every minute of every day. What am I talking about? I am
talking about the strongest psychological tool in the world. It is being
used to get you to do things the way the prince of this earth (Satan)
would have you do them. Systematic Desensitization is a tool used by the
professional therapist.
Systematic desensitization is subtle, but very effective. This
procedure is used to help those with a phobia (fear) that causes problems
in their daily living. For example, if you have a great fear of elevators,
in this process you go through a verbal (mental) relaxation process. When
you are in a state of total relaxation (mentally) the object of your fear
is introduced into the mental picture. When you "tense" at the
mental image, the therapist immediately returns to the relaxation
exercises. By slowly having you face the object of your fear while in this
state of relaxation, the time will come when you can think about it
without any tense reaction. Soon, you can mentally do that which you could
not even talk about before. Then, you are moved into the physical world
and begin the process of facing your worst fear. Using the fear of
elevators as an example, you go into tall buildings and look at the
elevators. Then, you get in an elevator, leaving the door open --
progressively working toward the time when you close the door and push the
up button. The method works!
QUESTION: Do you know anyone who has gone though this procedure? If so
was it effective and why or why not?
The Church has been outspoken for a long time about what we watch on
TV. The majority of Americans do not see any harm being done. The adult
world is asleep at the control or doesn't care. The younger generation
can't see the harm and sees any attempt to control what they watch as an
unnecessary intrusion into their life. Hollywood is more than willing to
provide whatever will attract the largest audience.
Now we probably can see that sex, violence, and many other repulsive
things that happen hundreds of times per day on television can and do have
an effect on what we do in real life. It is a fact that if you see enough
blood in your mind you will have less trouble facing the real thing later.
The trained therapist has more control of the situation and knows when to
move from fear to relaxation. You are already relaxed, and know the TV
isn't real life . . .
QUESTION: Can you think of an example of someone you know doing things
that they should not because of TV?
QUESTION: Do you think TV or Video Games had any part in the rash of
recent shootings in schools?
APPLICATION:
Consider that the best pilot training, and gunnery training for our
military and police forces are now "Virtual Reality" style video
games.
Eye witness reports show that in the school shootings the boys involved
stood still in one place and fired one round at each target. In one
incidence out of 15 shots fired, 12 were "fatal" targets hit.
Professional police on a target range do not fare this well, one in six
being a very good score with a hand gun and moving targets. They also
don’t fire one "fatal" bullet and move to the next target
without ever shifting their body or checking around them as these boys
did. Where do you fire one shot at the upper body or head and move on to
the next target instantly? Try video arcade games! The boys were trained
well from all those hours in the arcades.
QUESTION: Have you changed your mind since beginning this
discussion about TV or video games? How?
This doesn't say you can't watch any TV or play video games or etc. It
does say that you must be careful. The ways of the world are subtle and
will "brainwash" you. It is in the "teenage" years
that many of our values are set in place. Our enemy (Satan) can and does
affect the way we will live the rest of our lives. The broken lives and
families of the world are a visible testimony of his effect on the people
of the world.
Taking "orders," obeying parents or other adults placed over
you is not a sign of weakness. This is what God commands us to do. It is
only with God's help that we stand any chance to resist the brainwashing
of the devil. We cannot do it our way! We either do it God's way and live,
or do it Satan's way and die!
God's way is peace with God and all mankind. When we are in God's
family we do the right things because He says so and we want to please
Him. We do not need rewards to do what is right. We have the correct
motivation, and the world's system will not entrap us. Similarly, we don't
have any desire to take part in all the evil things Satan uses to tempt
us. We can resist by the power of the Holy Spirit, who dwells within every
believer.
The one concept from the world of the psychologist children of God can
readily accept is within a discipline they call "cognitive."
This is a method by which they believe if they can expose the problem,
that the logical mind of man can solve it. They are only partially right.
When we know what the problem is we can trust God's answer for the
problem, Jesus Christ. It also adds power to our prayers, because we know
where our weakness is and can pray for our exact need. We will not solve
anything by ourselves like men believe they can.
© Chuck Baynard – 1st EPC, Clover, SC